pay attention<\/a> and express interest. <\/p>\n\n\n\nFor men, this is normal, and they may feel confused or upset if a woman yells at them for it, especially if they weren\u2019t being explicitly interested in someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women, too, can feel more attracted to someone else in certain circumstances. Most women have higher standards than men, usually involving a partner who is financially stable, reasonably healthy, and preferably has a good job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If a woman feels their current partner is too flighty and risky, they may feel more attracted to someone who feels more stable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is a lot of talking around my main point, which is that it doesn\u2019t matter why the attraction grows<\/strong>. The point is that one partner does<\/em> feel a growing sexual attraction to someone else, and if that goes on for long enough, they may act on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n5. Spending More Time With Someone Else<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Finally, simply spending time with someone else can lead to an affair, especially if people find that they have a lot in common. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/figure>\n\n\n\nIt\u2019s difficult for people to be just<\/em> friends, but it is possible if they\u2019re otherwise satisfied with their life. People are also less likely to start an affair if the relationship is strictly professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\nUnfortunately, dealing with this is more proof (like we needed any more) that relationships are way more complicated than they need to be. Don\u2019t believe me yet? Here, I\u2019ll explain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many people object to their partner spending too much time with others of the opposite gender. They know that a relationship could deteriorate, and an affair could start. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, this can feel incredibly constraining to someone, especially if they\u2019re firm in their commitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In other words, the mere act of trying to stop someone from spending time with others can, itself, be the trigger for damaging a relationship and the eventual start of an affair. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
After all, if you\u2019re constantly accused of cheating, why not do it so you can at least get the benefits of having another relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This isn\u2019t easy to resolve. One option is meeting with other people in decent-sized groups and refusing one-on-one encounters, but that won\u2019t work for everyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s probably better for a couple to spend more time together. If you\u2019re having tons of fun in your current relationship, an affair isn\u2019t anywhere near as attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
FAQs<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Here are some other common questions that most people have about affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n