burner phone.<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\nThat way, you can keep your main phone unlocked and in your spouse's sight, which will decrease suspicions and make you seem like a dutiful, loyal husband or wife. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, you now have to keep your burner phone hidden. The best place to do that is at work. If you\u2019ve seen Breaking Bad, you\u2019ll know that Walter White hid his burner phone in his classroom at the school he taught. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just keep your phone on silent, unlike Walter White! Ironically, while his burner phone did get discovered, he wasn\u2019t using it for cheating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can also keep your burner phone in your gym locker. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
12. Create Fake or Hidden Social Media Accounts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Adding new flings on Facebook or Instagram is a big no-no. But what if the people you match with on Tinder ask to see your Facebook? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They might get suspicious if you say you don\u2019t have one, especially if they search you up and find you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead, create a separate account just for flings. Keep it private, so it\u2019s not searchable or discoverable by your spouse or private investigators. Give it out to flings, and create a whole new personality for yourself! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
13. Work a Job With Unpredictable or Traveling Schedules<\/h2>\n\n\n\n The best way to stay under the radar and avoid setting off red flags is to have a job with an unpredictable schedule. That way, if you come home a few hours late a few times a week, nobody will think twice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even better, get a job that requires you to travel. You can always say you\u2019re going on a business trip when you\u2019re just staying at a hotel on the other side of town. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/figure>\n\n\n\n14. Make New or Different Friends<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Your existing friends may or may not have met your wife, but your spouse may still contact them. Your friends might not knowingly sell you out, but how they answer your spouse\u2019s questions may give off clues that something\u2019s fishy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you make new friends who don\u2019t know your wife, you can be more open with them about your extramarital activities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
15. Take Up New Hobbies That Require Going Out<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Infidelity can be addictive! The more you do it, the more you\u2019ll want to do it even more. However, going out all the time for no reason can be a red flag. Instead, take up new hobbies that require you to go out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, join a boxing gym or start playing tennis. Attend chess tournaments or join a book club. Go skiing with friends or kayaking by yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Document yourself while doing those things. Post pictures on social media, if you use social media, so your spouse knows that you aren\u2019t lying about those hobbies. When you do go to meet a fling, use your hobby as a cover. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
16. Don't Create Photo or Video Evidence<\/h2>\n\n\n\n I mentioned locking photos in a private app, but it\u2019s better if you don\u2019t create photo and video evidence at all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even if you use a photo lock app, for example, your spouse may figure out your password. If you send your photos to the person you\u2019re cheating on your spouse with, they may send those pictures to their friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Or, if your fling doesn\u2019t know you have a wife, they might post them on social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
These days, it only takes a bit of internet sleuthing to uncover leaked photos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
17. Don't Choose a Fling That Wants More From You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n This step is more critical than you may think. It\u2019s important to hang out with people who only want to hook up. Whether or not they know about your marriage doesn\u2019t matter as much as this. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A girl who is looking for a long-term relationship might know that you\u2019re cheating on your wife but still expect you to leave your wife for her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/figure>\n\n\n\nIf you don\u2019t do that, they might get upset and even lash out, letting your wife know that you were cheating on her this whole time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If they don\u2019t know you have a wife, things are bound to get even messier. They\u2019ll probably want to go out on dates, but you'll be afraid of doing that for fear of getting seen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They might get suspicious of why you\u2019re unavailable on weekend nights, for example. When they do find out that they\u2019re just a side piece, things can go wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, someone who just wants to have fun and isn\u2019t interested in anything serious won\u2019t pose any problems. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They\u2019ll be fine with just meeting at her place or a motel, having sex, watching Netflix together, and then you leaving without staying the night. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
They also won\u2019t be interested in going out with you on dates, and they probably won\u2019t upload selfies of both of you together to social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of the best types of flings is those with people who are also cheating on their spouses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Both of you have no interest in disclosing what you\u2019re doing, so you can rely on the other person to stay tight-lipped about things. Furthermore, it gives you something to bond over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
18. Don't Talk About It<\/h2>\n\n\n\n You shouldn\u2019t talk about your extramarital affair with your spouse. Sometimes, though, the temptation to do so might be strong. It\u2019s especially common for people to blurt out that they\u2019re having an affair during a fight, to hurt the other person. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
People also disclose their affairs during moments of weakness. They feel guilty, and so they tell their spouses. That often happens when their spouses do something nice for them or start talking about their feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not only that, but it\u2019s also important to keep your affair secret from as many people as possible. Your cousin and even siblings don\u2019t have to know about it, nor do your friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Word gets around in ways you couldn\u2019t imagine. The fewer people know about it, the less likely you are to be discovered. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/figure>\n\n\n\n19. Have an Exit Plan<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Finally, have an exit plan. While doing all of the above drastically decreases your chances of being caught cheating, there are no guarantees here. There are only two guarantees in life, and not getting caught cheating isn\u2019t one of them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What will you do if your spouse catches you and is unwilling to work things out? You may have to go through a divorce, and things can start going downhill pretty quickly if you don\u2019t have an exit plan in advance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
First, have a plan for the divorce. Talk with a lawyer to discuss your options. Take inventory of all your and your spouse\u2019s assets, so you know what belongs to you and what your spouse may claim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hide evidence of the cheating from social media, so your spouse can\u2019t use it in the divorce proceedings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you have children, make a plan for how you will argue for custody or visitation rights. You should also figure out how you\u2019ll break the news to them to make things a bit easier for them to handle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Figure out your future living situation. Look into short-term rental options that you can afford, so you\u2019re not left on the street. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As for your love life, have an exit plan as well. Make sure you are emotionally ready to handle a breakup and divorce \u2013 after all, if you\u2019re willing to cheat, that is a potential consequence you must be ready to accept. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
While you\u2019re hopefully cheating with someone who isn\u2019t looking for anything serious, that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t broach the topic if things do go south in your marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alternatively, you can emotionally prepare yourself to start dating new people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n Infidelity is thrilling, scary, and fun at the same time. While there\u2019s no foolproof way to ensure you aren\u2019t caught, there are ways to drastically reduce the risks and make it almost impossible for anyone to find out. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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