{"id":2200,"date":"2021-11-16T15:49:08","date_gmt":"2021-11-16T20:49:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/divorceanswers.com\/?p=2200"},"modified":"2022-07-28T10:01:43","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T15:01:43","slug":"how-do-cheaters-react-when-accused","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/divorceanswers.com\/how-do-cheaters-react-when-accused\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do Cheaters React When Accused? 13 Ways to Know You’ve Caught Them"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
If someone has ever cheated on you, you know the heartbreak doesn\u2019t end once you find the evidence of your cheater\u2019s crimes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019ve still have to confront them about what they\u2019ve done, and that\u2019s never easy. From manipulation and gaslighting to tears and guilt, not all cheaters follow the same script.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, every cheater\u2019s reaction may be a little different when you confront or accuse them. So here are thirteen different ways these confrontations typically play out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are plenty of excuses in a cheater\u2019s playbook, and we\u2019ve listed some of the most common ones for you below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you first accuse them, it\u2019s not unusual for cheaters to deny the entire incident (or incidents), even if you\u2019ve got hard proof of their adultery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They may tell you that other people are lying to you or that any pictures, videos, or screenshots are fake. A cheater doesn\u2019t have any valid alibi, but they\u2019ll try their hardest to turn you against anyone that\u2019s told the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This tactic is often employed when you\u2019ve been told about the cheating by someone else, but even if you discovered it on your own, a cheater might still try and deny it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gaslighting<\/a> is a word used to describe when someone tries to manipulate you into questioning your memory, perception, or reality. For example, if someone insults you and you confront them about it, a gaslighter may tell you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n While it can happen between friends and family, gaslighting can be especially apparent in relationships, especially with cheaters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Once they\u2019re desperate, cheaters will do anything to convince you things aren\u2019t as they seem. Rather than deny what happened, they may tell you you\u2019re ridiculous for even suggesting they\u2019d cheat or that you don\u2019t know what you saw or heard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A cheater\u2019s goal is to make you question the reality of the situation, but this is just a manipulation tactic, and it\u2019s essential to stick to the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Similar to gaslighting, some cheaters may try and turn the tables and lay the blame on you. Instead of admitting to their own choices, they may argue that you pushed them into it, you haven\u2019t been paying them enough attention, you\u2019re too tied up with work, and that they had no choice but to look for attention elsewhere. They may even accuse you of cheating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n With this tactic, the cheater will do and say anything to make their mistake into yours. If they succeed, a cheater will have you begging their forgiveness. Not the other way around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Read More:<\/strong> Husband Turning Everything Around On You?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\nThey Will Turn the Tables<\/h3>\n\n\n\n