{"id":1984,"date":"2021-11-02T09:04:36","date_gmt":"2021-11-02T13:04:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/divorceanswers.com\/?p=1984"},"modified":"2022-09-01T09:28:13","modified_gmt":"2022-09-01T14:28:13","slug":"cheating-wife-signs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/divorceanswers.com\/cheating-wife-signs\/","title":{"rendered":"OMG! 25 Cheating Wife Signs You Are Not Aware Of (Yet)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Everyone knows that divorce rates are high, but no one thinks they are on the heartbreaking end of those statistics. We don\u2019t enter a marriage thinking it will end in infidelity.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To some, these situations come out of nowhere. To others, the signs have been slowly creeping up on them. If you suspect your partner is cheating but aren\u2019t sure if it\u2019s all in your head, use our advice to brush off any doubt!<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We will help you vocalize what cheating means to you, why it could be happening, and the signs your wife could be showing you that you might not be aware of.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if it turns out the worst is true<\/a><\/span> and she did cheat on you, we will guide you to the road of recovery.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n

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What Is Considered Cheating?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You might think the answer to this question is obvious, but everyone views the world differently. To some, watching porn is a form of cheating. To others, flirting with a friend is crossing a line even though it's clear nothing is going on. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many people think that a New Year\u2019s Kiss shared amongst friends is a platonic form of celebration, but to others, it\u2019s a massive betrayal of trust.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You cannot assume that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to infidelity. Instead, you must <\/span>communicate to each other where your boundaries are<\/span><\/a>. Opening up this conversation and asking how your partner feels will show you how they see the world and how they experience love. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your partner might explain that physical contact, like holding hands, kisses on the cheek, and hugs, are a normal part of friendship, but buying gifts and sharing cuddles on the coach are more intimate. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

With this insight, those questionable moments between your partner and her friend will seem more innocent. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why Do Wives Cheat?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n
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There can be a wide range of reasons why a spouse might cheat, but they all tend to come down to 4 things. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lack of self-esteem, a lack of love, the feeling of neglect, and unfulfilled sexual desire all of which can turn a marriage toxic<\/a> if not addressed immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Self-Esteem<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Self-esteem is how you value yourself. People who have low self-esteem tend to look for validation around their lives to boost their self-esteem, or they look for negative things in their life to prove the negativity. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes a person\u2019s low self-esteem will cause them to create a social bubble around themselves, rejecting everyone around them. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This makes their partner lonely, and like a self-fulfilling prophecy, the thought that you are not good enough for your wife seems to come true as she finds another person to share her life with.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another way in which self-esteem can affect a marriage is when a partner loses confidence in themselves and searches for someone to pull them up. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they cannot find that person in their partner, they will look elsewhere for validation<\/span><\/a>. In these scenarios, you may tell your wife that they are beautiful, intelligent, and accomplished, but these words do not reach her. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a road they need to walk down themselves, but that doesn\u2019t mean you cannot be by her side. Ask her what she wants, and find the solution together. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she takes the road alone, she may discover validation in someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lack of Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A lack of love is not the same as low self-esteem because you can love your partner and not feel worthy of them. A lack of love is when the spark between the two of you has died, and it seems as though you cannot rekindle the flame.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although the lost connection may make you feel lonely, it is not a valid reason to break their trust. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately, there is little you can do when someone no longer sees you in the light they once did.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neglect<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Neglect can form when emotional connections dip. Your partner may wish that you spent more time with them, or took them for dates, or simply laughed with them more. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When one person in a couple has a stressful time, they often focus on themselves to get through the tough period. A spouse would expect to look after and protect their partner during this hard time. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if the event doesn\u2019t seem to end, and the partner keeps putting you first, they will feel the emotional withdrawal of neglect.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s in these times that your wife may look for someone to look after her, emotionally. Just a simple connection with another person can make your partner feel loved again. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When these old feelings of happiness and control come back to those who were neglected, <\/span>62.8 percent<\/span><\/a> are likely to form strong bonds with this new person who has supported them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sexual Desire<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Everyone has different sexual libidos, which is why (like cheating) you need to understand how your partner feels and not assume they are on the same wavelength as you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your partner might be sexually interested in things <\/span>they don\u2019t feel comfortable telling you<\/span><\/a>, so instead, they hold in their sexual desire, and it is released in flings they instantly regret. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having an open and honest conversion about your sex life can expand your sexual intimacy.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

25 Signs Your Wife Is Cheating On You<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you are looking at this list, you might already feel that something is wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is your wife cheating on you? Here's 25 cheating wife signs to find out if she is having an extramarital affair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Your Wife Guards Her Phone<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Everyone is entitled to their privacy, and there might be a valid reason for your wife to hide her phone from you. Maybe she's buying you a birthday present, or is planning a surprise trip. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if you notice that her attitude around boundaries has changed recently, then this might be a cause for concern.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask your wife why her guard has gone up, and explain that you are concerned. If you pry too often, your partner will become more private, so be open and honest about why the change has worried you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Her Social Media Habits Have Changed<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We all go through times where we post constantly and then not at all, so seeing these types of changes isn\u2019t unusual. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if you notice that your partner seems to be on their phone a lot but not active on your social media, then they may have a \u201c<\/span>Finsta<\/span><\/a>\u201d account. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u201cFinsta\u201d is a fake Instagram account, often used by teenagers to keep their social life away from their parent\u2019s eyes. They can be their goofy self without upsetting their guardians. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your partner is cheating, they may have created a \u201cFinsta” to create a fake version of themselves online. Without a connection to you, they are free to talk to and flirt with whomever they want.<\/span> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another option is she may have joined one of the best dating sites for married but looking people<\/a>, so be sure to keep an eye on the internet history.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Changes in Communication<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you find that you\u2019re not talking to your partner as much or all of your conversations are stale, then there is definitely something wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c<\/span>Stonewalling<\/span><\/a>\u201d is when someone stops talking to you altogether, they might do this as a technique to collect themself before a conversation, or it might be a sign that they no longer care what you think.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stonewalling is when:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n