5. She\u2019s Been Lying About Little Things<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nYou may have noticed that some of the things your wife has been saying to you don\u2019t add up. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nWhen you asked why she was late home, she said there was traffic, but you already looked at the traffic app when you realized she was late, and they said the roads were clear.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf your partner is lying about little things like this, it can make you wonder what else she is hiding from you. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nSure, she could have stayed late to eat takeout rather than attempt to swallow your food, but wouldn\u2019t it be better for her to say you're a lousy cook?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n6. Hard To Get Hold Of When She\u2019s Doing Errands <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nIf your partner is out doing errands, then it won't be a huge surprise if she doesn\u2019t answer her phone straight away. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nBut if you know she's often glued to her screen; she should come back to it every 5 or 10 minutes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nLong periods of time between texts can be an indication that she's distracted. A brief \u201chello\u201d to a friend she met at the mall is different from hours of silence. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIt's possible she's hanging out with someone else, which is why she doesn\u2019t have time to talk to you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n7. She\u2019s Buying You More Gifts<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nYou may think that more gifts are a sign of a happy and healthy relationship, but they can also be a sign of guilt. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you find the gifts random and out of place, ask yourself these questions:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n- Are the gifts generic?<\/span><\/li>
- Did she give you a reason for the presents?<\/span><\/li>
- Were they given after a long period of silence?<\/span><\/li>
- Are they being used to stop you from asking questions?<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
If you said yes to any of the questions, then these gifts may have a dark ulterior motive.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n8. Going Out With Friends You Don\u2019t Recognize<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nHaving a separate social life is important to maintain your sense of self in a relationship, but if your partner has new friends that she cannot explain, something might be wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf your wife has joined a new club or has said there is a new person at her work, then it makes sense that her friendship group has expanded, but if these new friends have come out of nowhere, she may have found them on a dating app.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n9. Irregularities In Your Bank Account<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome couples have shared bank accounts; others have a separate one. The likelihood is, if you live together, you have at least one shared account to pay the household bills on. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you put all your money into one pot, it will be obvious when the figures don\u2019t match up. If you find a charge for a restaurant on the day that your partner was meant to be running errands, then this is clear evidence that she has been lying. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nBut the likelihood is that your partner will be smarter than that. Instead, she might tell you that she needs to take some money out, and you see a cash payment on your accounts that confirms that; \u201cMoney for a rainy day.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nShe may then use this cash to pay for days out without the location flashing up on your bank statement.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n10. Gets A Separate Credit Card<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nYou may already own separate bank accounts, and if that's the case, then this point is null and void. But if you normally share all of your money, opening a separate credit card account is an off move.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nThis might be a sign that your wife is moving money in preparation to leave. The situation may not be as dramatic as that, so ask your partner why she needs a separate credit card. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nRemember that your credit rating will be tied together due to your joint accounts, so it\u2019s a valid question to wonder how her credit future is progressing.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n11. Changed Her Appearance<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nSome people change their appearance as often as the world changes season, but most only create a new wardrobe when they need a change in their life. Like a classic movie montage, a haircut can symbolize and change on the inside. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you can see that something in your wife\u2019s life connects to her need for change, then her new appearance doesn\u2019t have to be a cause for concern. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nA stressful job and new hobby are all she needs to spark off a new look, but if nothing is pointing to a clear new direction for your partner, then you need to think about where this change has come from. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf she cannot give you a straight answer, and her explanations seem lackluster, then she is hiding something.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n12. Isn\u2019t Interested In Your Social Life<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nIt is normal to have a separate life from your partner. Having different interests is a healthy way to ensure you don\u2019t lose yourself when you join together with another person. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nBut just as you should take an interest in her life, she needs to take an interest in yours too.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you bring up your hobbies, and she isn\u2019t happy to see your face beam in excitement, then it means her empathy for you has gone. She should be glad to see you happy, even if she has no idea what you are talking about. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nSaying \u201cyou should talk about that with your friends\u201d is a way to manipulate the conversation, so she doesn\u2019t need to talk about your interests anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nSure, if you are talking in-depth and constantly, then this statement is valid, but if you have just started, then you have every right to be upset. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n13. She\u2019s Avoiding You<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\nYour spouse is meant to be one of the closest people in your life, if not <\/span>the<\/span><\/i> closest person. In the \u201choneymoon\u201d phase, you will want to spend every second with each other, will have your hands all over each other and simply cannot get enough. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nAfter a couple of years, this feeling might die down, but the love and connection should still be there.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf your wife no longer wants to spend time with you, this should be a massive red flag. You are meant to be her number one person, and even if she has a super best friend, you should at least be in her top 5. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nIf your wife is avoiding you, she either doesn\u2019t want to be in your company or feels guilty about something. Either way, you need to ask her why she\u2019s so distant.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n14. Gets Angry With You More<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n